Monday, April 27, 2015
Alison's Diary
"Fun Home" delves deep into the psychology behind the Bechdel family and their motivations, Alison and Bruce most notably. They're both homosexual, but have their own ways of dealing with their insecurities about it and other issues in their lives.
Bruce tends to impose his problems onto other family members, even if he means well. He externally criticizes and attempts to control those he is close to in order to feel better about himself, which might feel healthy to himself, but can be destructive on others. At the same time, Alison begins to keep a diary to document her thoughts on people and events going on in her life. While this is a fine thing to do, her growing OCD infiltrates into her diary and she starts doubting herself, eventually scribbling out more and more of her writing in efforts to fend off "evil thoughts." She doesn't harm anyone on the outside, but instead becomes destructive to herself internally.
However, the opposite happens with Bruce and Alison perceiving their sexualities. Bruce attempts to keep the truth about how he feels towards males a closely guarded secret to all but those involved, while Alison becomes open about her sexuality once she discovers what she truly wants, even adopting more masculine features as she becomes more comfortable. The difference between them is that Alison was able to confront her personal issues, like beginning to vocally tell Helen about her day instead of keeping it all secluded in a book, while Bruce just kept repressing his until he couldn't take it anymore.
1. Would Bruce have been better off confronting Helen about his issues as well? Why or why not?
2. Alison was indirectly stopped from writing and drawing at a young age due to how Bruce perceived her artistry. What if Bruce hadn't criticized her, how would that have affected her? Would she have been criticized by someone else?
3. How different do you think Bruce's personality would be if he never repressed his issues, like his homosexuality?
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I think we have to consider the time in which he addresses Helen about their issues, as having the kids in the matter would create an entirely different scenario as not having them. I think that if they had gotten the divorce and he had come out than his behavior from the kids standpoint would have been understood in time by the children and Alison probably would have had a somewhat closer relationship with him especially since she could definitely have someone to identify with. If he didn't repress it i feel like he wouldn't be as controlling maybe, since he'd probably feel like he'd gain some control by formally outing himself and dealing with it in the open, but this is all speculation.
ReplyDeleteI definitely think that Bruce would have been better off with his problems if he had opened ip. I can totally see why he didn’t. The time he grew up was different, and was much more difficult for him to open up because of the society. Alison is going up with a much more open society.
ReplyDeleteBruce was one of the more powerful forces in Alison’s life, because she almost always wanted his acceptance, but since he was too focused on his own problems, still she strived for his attention. I think no matter what, she probably would have been criticized by someone, her father was just the person who was the most prominent force at that time in her life.
As for Bruce, He probably would have still remodeled the yard, and the home, but he would probably be a lot happier and more open to share with his family.
I definitely think that Bruce would have been better off with his problems if he had opened ip. I can totally see why he didn’t. The time he grew up was different, and was much more difficult for him to open up because of the society. Alison is going up with a much more open society.
ReplyDeleteBruce was one of the more powerful forces in Alison’s life, because she almost always wanted his acceptance, but since he was too focused on his own problems, still she strived for his attention. I think no matter what, she probably would have been criticized by someone, her father was just the person who was the most prominent force at that time in her life.
As for Bruce, He probably would have still remodeled the yard, and the home, but he would probably be a lot happier and more open to share with his family.